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Do you think there will always be an effective solution to teen pregnancy?

Posted in Child Support on 12th June 2013

Do you think there will always be an effective solution to teenage pregnancy?
Best Answer (s):

Answer by Invisible Pink’s an RN
Nope! However, it is the lowest ever in over three decades.

Reply Barbie19xx
So what if she is pregnant, her choice to get pregnant or keep the baby

response from vada
Yup. I think schools should be a class of naturally see a free life in nanny for half the school year and how it is to be a mother to be. They will do anything and yet is “child support” of their choice “teen dad” and spending on diapers, formula, etc., and I still have to juggle a part time job and school. You have the child all weekend and after school. they will live alternately with their parents, the children of different temperaments, age, and some with disabilities. Teen boys need to get a part time job and pay the “mothers” of all their check-in to help with diapers, formula, etc., and the weekends live with the family to spend, because statistically young fathers are less present in real-time life anyway when real teenage mothers give birth. I would assume both parties would be willing to jump off a bridge to end this and will be happy to pass the course and will be more careful when rolling around in the hey. Those who fail big time and be held back a grade. The real mothers of babies grade them and the mothers are paid in free child care for the youngsters as well as diaper, formula and clothes money on the “Teen Father” paycheck from their real part time jobs that they have provided during the duration of the course hold.

Teen Working & Child Support, Do I pay?

Posted in Working Mothers on 23rd January 2011

Teen Working & Child Support, Do I pay?
My daugher lives with me off and on but not during the school year. She lives with her mother in a nother state. My daughter is going on 16 and wants to work for here money. If she gets a job will I still have to continue to give the money to her mother? My thoughts were to put it in a savings account and if she stops working to let her dip into it instead of letting her or her “Mother” spend it away on needless stuff. Can I rightfully do this?
Not like I was trying to get out of paying child support. Tech we never had an order from a judge. We are civil toward each other. I just feel that child support should be for the child not for the parent to run off to another state each month on expensive trips and leave the child to be raised with the grand parent or sibbling. I have a wounderful daughter who is every much a woman now and sees through all the smoke and wants her dad not to pay for anything. I wanna take the money and put it in an educational IRA for her to attend college. My daughters reason for getting a job is to support her self because the mother isn’t supporting her needs. So what do you do? If I had other Ideas of gettinghte money directly to her that you have to offer let me know. Until then another day and a free trip to Vagas or Alanta, Chicago she goes… Thanks…
Thanks for all who responded. Just an update on this issue since so manny were concerned, I do have rights and very suprisingly to me they fall in my favor according to my lawyer and the judge said it will look favor full as well if I get this done now. Thank for your inputs.

Best answer(s):

Answer by piepiepie
You’ll have to take it up with your lawyers, but usually you have to pay child support until the kid is 18 no matter what.

Answer by mellie
I’m pretty sure u can, just contact the child support agency and they will tell u.

Answer by brothergoosetg
you’ve gotta pay unless your lawyer snuck in a clause for what you’re planning now waaay back when.

Answer by celticwarrior7758
More than likely, no. If the court ordered you to pay, you have to pay. You can always petition the court, but I doubt it will do any good. 2 more years and you are free. Just have patience.

Answer by Andrea
You would need to ask a lawyer. If you can do this. Don’t listen to anyone on these ‘answers’. It is better to be safe then sorry and you need see what the law has to say. You don’t want to have to pay it again or go to jail.

Answer by gangstadad
depends on the state, in florida you can’t, your ex can’t even refuse child support from you, (like she would anyways) go online to your states statutes, you didn’t include your state so we can’t even do your reading for you.

Answer by vakere2
sounds bad that u have to pay it but does not matter u have to pay till she is 18 buddy its just alil over a year more plus its ur daughter

Answer by reshadow31
the money is for the cost of housing and raising your child, you need to find out what it states in your custody papers, if the money goes directly to your child then you should be able to do this, but if it goes to her mother the not. Just because your daughter gets a job this doesnt help pay for the food that she eats, the place where she lives, the cost of her schooling, and so on. If she gets a job the money she makes will probably just go for her extra spending money.

Answer by sxybrwneyedgrl29
No u cant rightfully do that, her money is “HER MONEY” and not money to support herself at that age, she wont be paying rent or the electric bill or food etc.. she’ll be spending it on clothes, makeup and dating.. sorry but a judge would laugh in your face if u tried to stop paying based on that lol.. YOU PAY CHILDSUPPORT TO HER MOTHER TO “SUPPORT YOUR DAUGHTER” geeze why is it so hard for men to realize that???? YOU HAVE TO PAY UNTILL SHE IS OF AGE ORRRRRRRRRRR UNLESS SHE MOVES OUT AND IS SUPPORTING HERSELF, but while she is still under her mothers roof, u pay HER MOTHER, to help provide a roof over her head, food on the table, electricity, etc etc etc..

Geeze u’ll find any excuse not to actually pay ur x money wont u ? lol.. how pathetic u are..

Answer by RICHARD T
No. Child support set up through court is a court order. It isn’t like a cable tv bill that you can just say you won’t pay this month. Unfortunately, the court cannot supervise(nor should it) the way child support funds are spent. It is not the courts fault that you made a mistake in marry someone that didn’t work out as a lifelong partner. Bite the bullet like many of us have and pay until the child reaches legal age. It’s no different than you taking out a loan on a car and it falls to pieces a month after the warranty runs out. If you still have three years left on your loan, you pay the three years and mark it off as a lesson learned.

Is teen pregnancy and teen parenthood something popular now?

Posted in Child Care on 9th December 2010

Is teen pregnancy and teen parenthood something popular now?
All of the buzz about Lynn Spears and how “great” it is being a parent (even though she had her baby about a minute ago), plus this ridiculous reality TV show about teens carelessly “caring” for other people’s children seems far fetched from how many adults were raised. So, I ask, is this a new popular trend now? What do you think about this?

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Answer by ♥ Abi ♥
no way!

it just proves that they want it too be a trend but really there wasting their childhod!

Answer by Melissa22 Is having a Baby Girl
sorry i think it is wrong!! Lynn spears has the money to do it!!

Answer by Tizzy
unfortunately, yes. I went to wal-mart yesterday and saw a whole flock of pregnant teenagers! It’s just wrong.

Answer by straightupsusieg
no. sex is a popular trend in teens now. why? i dont know. but teens carelessly have unprotected sex. and that leads to pregnancy. and that makes it look like its a popular trend but it isnt. just the sex part is and the babys come along with the package.

Answer by Carter’s Mommy
No it’s not a trend, it just seems that way because of how they constantly publicized Jamie Lynn Spears.

Answer by Jill P
It sure seems to be. I see a LOT of questions on here from teens about wanting to be pregnant, being pregnant, having 3 kids before they’re out of their teens, etc. And then there was that disturbing news story a week or so ago about the group of 17 high school girls who decided they were all going to get pregnant and did…….

However, I also heard that the teen pregnancy rate in the US is continuing to fall vs. the early 90s, so maybe not — maybe it’s just perception?

Answer by Dgaf Mommy
I think the baby borrowers is a good Idea…it shows these teens that its not all fun and games with being a parent and Maybe it will get them to think before just oh I want a baby! and Yes it is a trend now!

Answer by iq5000+
unfortunately, it’s a bad trend that started with the movie stars. BUT!!! they have the money 2 hire an expeirenced older nanny to take care of their children! normal teen mothers dont hav that kinda money! but teen parenting isnt cool. the child takes time away from growing up, going to college, getting a job, cuz, unless u hav help, u cant go 2 skool all day n leave ur baby home. n it costs $ 2 leave ’em in daycare.

Answer by Ashley~N~Bryce08
im a teen and even i, myself doesnt think its right in my opinion if your gonna have sex use protection or dont have sex at all and when i say protection i mean birth control pills and a condem and also i think you should be over 17 but this is only my opinion and in my school yea everyone even the girls brag about having sex and two of them were trying to get pregnant there only 14 years old

Answer by rocker_chic
i think the trend is to say that have had sex , you know to brag , but dont realize the consiquences of unprotected sex.